Tuesday, September 13, 2011

The Global Party @ Sultan

Honestly i don't have any idea what to wear !
Must check it out what my wardrObe can offer me ....haha!


And i had decided to wear dis :-)

Thursday, September 8, 2011

What $$$$$ can not buy?

It is said that for money you can have everything, but you cannot. You can buy food, but not appetite; medicine, but not health; knowledge, but not wisdom; glitter, but not beauty; fun, but not joy; acquaintances, but not friends; servants, but not faithfulness; leisure, but not peace. You can have the husk of everything for money, but not the kernel.

•You can buy a college degree, but not an education

•You can buy insurance, but not safety

•You can buy jokes, but not laughter

•You can buy a bed, but not sleep

•You can buy a house, but not a home

Wednesday, August 24, 2011


A quick post tO share everyOne:

Keeping your girlfriend happy is the key to a successful relationship.

Though it may seem difficult to understand a girl's emotions you can try some tricks to keep her happy. Here are few things a guy can do to keep his girlfriend happy.

Be loyal to her
This is the most basic and important rule. You would not mind occasional flirting but it could lead to bigger issues. Do not two time her, come what may! The relationship prospers if you are honest. Do not try to cheat on your partner. Discuss issues and communicate if you feel there is a problem. No one is perfect and there will be always something more that you will desire. Being loyal is not about not getting attracted but it is remembering that you have a partner who loves you, every time you feel attracted.

Say sorry
Do not be reluctant to say sorry if you have made a mistake or have hurt her in some way. 'Apology is a lovely perfume; it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious one,' whoever said this said it rightly. Never say, 'I am sorry that I hurt you'. This shows arrogance. Instead, say that you are sorry and you should not have done so.

Say that you love her
These three magical words do wonders. 'I love you' is what you have to tell her from time to time to make your relationship strong. Gently hold her hand, look deep into her eyes and tell her how much you love her and how much you care about her.

Call her back
Do do not have to climb on roof tops and shout your lungs out to her. If you love her, express it. Do not forget to call her back when you said to do so. At least call up once a day to ask what is she doing? Did she have her food on time? Just make a call to say 'I miss you' or 'I love you'. It shows you care and all it takes is a five minute call.

Give missed calls
Whenever you get time, buzz her to tell her that you are missing her. Your missed calls will make her feel special. They will also create a mysterious effect and you will have something to talk about when you actually call up or meet. Activate a romantic caller tune on your mobile phone. If she returns your missed calls, she will first hear the romantic number that will captivate her heart.

Send her sweet text messages
Make the best use of technology when you are running short on time. If you cannot call her then text her. Shower her with cute messages just to tell her that she is on your mind. Text her and let her know that you are missing her a lot (do not fake it). In your text messages mention sweet names for her like sweetheart, honey or cutie pie.

Share things with her
Let her know about your life. Do not create a big gap. Tell her about your past, if it is important, before she gets to know from some other source. Introduce her to your friends, tell her about what happened at work or tell her what your mother is cooking on this weekend. Ask her opinion on which shirt you should wear for work. It will make her feel that you value her.

Spend time with her
No relationship will work unless you give it time. Remember your first date and try to make your every other date as exciting as the first time you met. Your girlfriend will appreciate that you made time for her. Do things that will make the time you spent together memorable. A candle light dinner and a romantic love song with some champagne can make her fantasies real. There is nothing more romantic than taking a walk on a rainy day without any umbrellas. Sip some coffee together after that and you see her glow with the warmth of your love. Do the unexpected at times. It can turn a simple date into an eventful one.

Give her some space
Do not keep nagging. Give her some breathing space. Do not act over possessive. Let her spend time with her friends. Do not feel envious when she is enjoying with her pals. Let her know that you trust her. Avoid clinging to her like magnet all the time. A little space is important to let her miss you.

Respect her decisions
Remember something you learnt at school? Give respect and you will get respect. Respect her decisions and encourage her to achieve her goals. Call her and wish her good luck if she is going on a job interview. Stand by her side if she is depressed regarding her career or family. Tell her not to worry and be there for her. It is okay if you cannot give great advice but just by making her feel that you are there for her can make her feel better.

Public display of affection

Show your affection for her publicly. Do not feel hesitant. Hold her hand when you are walking. Put your hand around her shoulder and make her feel that you really care for her. Avoid kissing in public or you will find raised eyebrows around you. In worse cases, you might attract some rude remarks.

Complement her
You have approached her as you liked everything about her. Complement her when you notice something nice about her. Adore her beautiful smile. Admire her new attire or haircut. Tell her that you love the perfume she wears. Do not criticise her habits and do not try to change her. If there is really a problem, discuss it with her and find a solution together.

Drop love notes and letters
Go with the saying 'old is gold'. Adopt the old way of writing a letter. Write a letter, sprinkle the perfume you wear on it and mail it on the address of your sweetheart. She will be more than glad to receive a love letter from you. Without her knowledge leave a love note wherever she can find it easily and surprise her.

Surprise her with gifts
Shower her with gifts frequently. You need not buy very expensive gifs. Out of the blue treat her with her favourite flavour of ice-cream. Give her a bunch of roses, call her and tell that you have booked movie tickets for one of the latest movies she wanted to watch. A cuddle toy melts the hardest hearts; send it to her with a love note attached to it.

Be yourself
Do not pretend to be humorous, if you are not. Be your self. She will love you the way you are and not for some other reason. She will easily see through you. You may not be good at cracking jokes but you may be a romantic at heart. Be an original and you will be loved.

Make her laugh
You need not to be a laughter champion to make her laugh. A few spontaneous jokes can make her giggle. Tell her about funny incident that happened to you when you were a small boy or tell her about some funny thing you read somewhere. You do not have to try any tricks for this, just share some funny episodes.

Pamper her
Who does not like getting pampered? Sometimes treat her like a small girl. Buy chocolates and pastries for her. Pick up the heart shaped balloon for her. Tell her a story. Write poems for her. Think of your favourite love song and sing it for her. If you cannot sing then give her a CD of songs you would like to sing to her. You can also dedicate a song for her on a radio channel which plays songs on your demand. However, do not forget to ask her to tune in at the right time.

Hugs & kisses
Warm hugs and passionate kisses blossom a relationship. A loving touch can work like magic. Greet her with a warm affectionate hug when you meet her. Not only hugs and kisses but a loving touch like holding her hand and caressing her is necessary to show your love towards her. When you are sitting with a group of friends, hold her hand below the table and see her trying to hide her blush.

If you have been going through a rough patch with your girl friend or just fallen in love, you now have the secret to make your girl friend happy. A relationship needs to be nurtured and it is the small things that make a big difference. It is time now to give her wonderful reasons to fall in love with you all over again. What are you waiting for?

Friday, August 19, 2011

Back in action

Its been a year since the last time i blog nOt because of the reasOn that i became sO lazy .....
its because nOthing/Nobody inspired me i had shut dOwn myself for almost 4 mOnths i can't even believe that i don't know how to appreciate evrything i have that time its all NOTHING to me .....and trying to knOw myself for anOther 5 mOnths.There sO much of things happened during that periOd of time....if i'm gOing to start blogging about it i dOn't think sO i will able to finish it ...its unbelievable.Till now it scares mw Over and Over...

Hmmm...let me share all the happenings started 2011 and forget about what happened last year 2010:-) i don't care about it haha!

Don't lOok at the past Corinne...Of corz yes im so grateful of what i have nOw...
No Changes lifes still gO on and on and on and on.........

  • back to shopping
  • back to party
  • back having delicious food
  • back to meet new friends
  • back to wOrk
  • back to back hahahhahaa! some more back to _ _ _ _!

Friday, June 18, 2010

Being Happy: 17 Timeless Secrets of Happy People

Here are 17 timeless secrets of happy people:

1. Forget the past
One of the keys to happiness is a bad memory.Rita Mae Brown
You won’t be happy if you carry the burden of the past. Did you make mistakes? Did you have terrible experiences? Whatever they are, you should let them go. There’s nothing you can do about the past, so you’d better let them go and focus your energy on the present.

2. Take responsibility for your life
The secret of Happiness is Freedom, and the secret of Freedom, Courage.Thucydides
To be happy you should have freedom and the most essential freedom is the freedom to choose. No matter how bad a situation is, you can always choose how you respond to it. People can annoy you, but it’s up to you whether or not you will resent.
But, as the quote above says, freedom takes courage. Freedom to choose requires the courage to take responsibility for your life. You shouldn’t blame someone else when something goes wrong. Take the responsibility and you have the power to choose.

3. Build relationships
Life’s truest happiness is found in friendships we make along the way.Unknown
Relationships is where we can get true happiness in life. The reason is simple: only through relationships can we love and be loved. Make relationships your
top priority and you are on your way to true happiness.

4. Develop multiple passions
The more passions and desires one has, the more ways one has of being happy.Charlotte-Catherine
Passions lead you to happiness. So not only should you discover your
multiple passions, you should also expand yourself to new passions. This way you will create new ways to happiness.
The key to expanding to new passions is curiosity. If you are curious, you will have an endless stream of exciting things waiting for you.

5. Build your character
Character is the basis of happiness and happiness the sanction of character.George Santayana
Building your character is essential for happiness. When you are true to yourself and others, you will be in peace.
The way to start building character is by making promises and keeping them. For example, you make promise to yourself that you won’t smoke. When you keep it, you are building your character. Or you make promise to others to be punctual. When you keep it, you build your character.

6. Be who you are
The summit of happiness is reached when a person is ready to be what he is.Desiderius Erasmus
You can only be happy if you become who you are. Don’t live other people’s life by trying to meet their expectations. People may expect you to have certain job or certain way of living but don’t be intimidated by them. Find who you are and be yourself.

7. Live your life purpose
The only true happiness comes from squandering ourselves for a purpose.William Cowper
To have a fulfilling life, you should find your life purpose and follow it faithfully.
Find what matters to you and build the courage to follow it. Having a one-liner will help you internalize and communicate your mission.

8. Count your blessings
Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.Unknown
Being happy is easy if we are grateful. Unfortunately, seeing what we don’t have is often easier than seeing what we have. Sometimes we need to experience loss before appreciating what we have. So don’t take things for granted. Look at what you have and soon you will have plenty of reasons to be happy. You may start with
these simple things.

9. Have positive mind
It is not the place, nor the condition, but the mind alone that can make anyone happy or miserable.Roger L’Estrange
Happy people know how to control their mind. They don’t let negative thoughts come in. While a situation may seem bad to others, happy people look at them in a positive way. They always believe that no matter how bad a situation seems, there is always something positive to take from it. Your mind can make or break you, so guard it well.

10. Work creatively
Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort.Franklin D. Roosevelt
When you work creatively on something you will find happiness. There is a well-known phenomenon regarding this called flow. When you are in the state of flow, you are fully focused on the task at hand that you no longer realize the passage of time. This state of flow allows you to achieve high productivity and being happy at the same time. Here are
some tips to achieve it.

11. Start with what you have
The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.James Oppenheim
Happy people don’t need something they don’t have to be happy. They don’t need certain job or certain level of income. Instead, they learn to be happy with what they already have. They have learned the art of contentment. Be content with what you have and you will be happy.

12. Change
They must often change who would be constant in happiness or wisdom.Confucius
Being happy requires you to constantly grow. In fact, the process of learning itself is essential for happiness. Have you ever felt the excitement of being enlightened about something? Have you ever felt the excitement of achieving a new level in life?
Top 10 Things You Should Change in Your Life gives you some practical tips on changing your life.

13. Use your talents
True happiness involves the full use of one’s power and talents.Douglas Pagels
There are two lessons to take from this quote. First, you should
find your talents and second, you should use them to the fullest. Working in your talents is a sure way to enjoy your work because it’s something you are “hardwired” to do. Using your talents fully will make you even happier because of the satisfaction of doing your best.

14. Beware of small things
The happiness of most people we know is not ruined by great catastrophes or fatal errors, but by the repetition of slowly destructive little things.Ernest Dimnet
This is very true. Often it’s not big things that ruin your happiness. It’s the small things that do. Perhaps you don’t like someone or break some “small” promises. But even small leaks can sink your ship of happiness, so beware of them.

15. Distill your ambitions
Where ambition ends happiness begins.Author Unknown
While wanting to achieve more in your life is good, being obsessed by it is not. Do your best to improve yourself but don’t be obsessed by it.

16. Make others happy
Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.Ralph Waldo Emerson
This is my favorite secret of happiness. The way to being happy is to make others happy first. The more you help other people and make them happy, the more you will be happy. Happiness doesn’t come through selfishness but through selflessness. You reap what you sow.

17. Practice compassion
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.The Dalai Lama
Compassion is perhaps the highest level of selflessness we could have. As this quote aptly says, practicing compassion can make both others and you happy.
But of course, it requires practice. Start with thinking about the people around you. Look at their needs and find ways to meet them. Even if you don’t do it out of compassion in the beginning, your compassion will grow over time.
All in all, this quote by Aristotle can summarize the lessons above:
Happiness depends upon ourselves.
It’s you who decide whether
or not you are happy in life.
I choose to be happy. What about you?

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Story bout' Mom & Dad(Take time read even though it’s lengthy ……..)

“in life, God doesn't give you the person you want, instead He gives you the person you need... to love you... hurt you and teach you the real meaning of life..."
A story worth sharing

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how
does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must
be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking
care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have,
as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional
needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.

There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I
had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that
there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after
informing my sleepy child.

With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am
home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So
with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the
room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention
of just having a well-deserved sleep, all i heard and felt was broken
porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the
source of the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess
on the bedsheet and blanket!

Boy, was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged
straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a
good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short

"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn't anymore leftover rice. But you were
not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I
remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any
adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from
the bathroom to cook the noodles. One is for you and the other is for me.
However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under
the blanket to keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you
'cos I was playing with my toys...I am sorry Dad..."

At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks...but I didn't
want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried
with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went
towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him,
while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the
bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son's
room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little
buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.

A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to
focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to
most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating
from kindergarten. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting
impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up.

However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time,
his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son's absence from
school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to
explain. But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling
out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily
playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell
out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But > after much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show' organized by
his school and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the
reason for his absence as he has no mummy.....

Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten
has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to
himself and stayed in his room to practise his writing, which I am sure,
would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud

Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's
winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the christmas spirit is in
every passer-by...Christmas carols and frantic shoppers....but alas, my
son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day's
work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was
also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to
post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise
never to hit my son again, I couldn't help but to hit him as I feel that
thi s child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he
apologized, ' I'm sorry, Dad' and no additional reason to explain. I
pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the
letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on
his prank, during this time of the year.

His answer, amidst his sobbing, was : The letters were for Mummy.

My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to
ask him: " But why did u post so many letters, at one time?" My son's
reply was: " I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I
reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able
to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I
could reach it and I sent it all at once..."

After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to

I told my son, " Son, mummy is in the heavenly kingdom, so in future, if
you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter and it will reach
mummy. My son, on hearing this, was much pacifi ed and calm, and soon
after, he was sleeping soundly. On promising that I will burn the letters
on his behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldnt help opening the
letter before they turn to ash.

And one of the letters broke my heart....

Dear Mummy,

I miss you so much! Today, there was a 'Talent Show' in school, and the
school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so I did
not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I was
afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad went
around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front of
the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was
furious, and he couldnt help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell
him the real reason. Mummy, everyday I see Dad missing you and whenever he
think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in h is room. I think
we both miss you very very much. Too much for our own good I think. But
Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in my
dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if you
fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will see
the person in your dreams. But mummy, why havent you appear?

After reading the letter, I cant stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace
the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....

For the females with children:

Don't do so much overtime. If you cannot finish the work, it must be some
kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem.
Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to
the problem. Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take
care of your little precious.

For the married men:

Drink less, smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even
business nor clients.
<>Try thinking this way, are you able to work till your clients are
totally dependent on you? or your boss is totally dependent on you? In
this society, no one is indispensable.

Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little
precious and your loved ones.

For those singles out there:

Beauty lies in loving yourself first.

With confidence and loving yourself, you will see the beauty in other
things around you. You will be able to work better and happier. Don't let
your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more
than your well being.
(hold ur breath ok really touching)

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

How i wish i have more time!!!

clock is twirlin’

I’m already getting dizzy just from looking at the clock image

- Massive Hangover Clock -

Its really hard to do things if you don't have enough time ...
So much of things to do in 1 day and we have only 24 hours ...

been googling
came across of these :

Did you ever had the feeling that you had not enough time? I really want another time system actually,… let’s think about an alternative for the actual time system..introducing the “Energy IS Time” system.
Who the f*ck invented Time?
The origins of our current measurement system go back to the Sumerian civilization of approximately 2000 BCE. This is known as the Sumerian Sexagesimal System based on the number 60.
60 seconds in a minute,
60 minutes in an hour -
and possibly a calendar with 360 (60×6) days in a year
Twelve also features prominently, with roughly 12 hours of day and 12 of night, and roughly 12 months in a year (especially in a 360 day year).
Time is actually an illusion caused by the passing of history.
Time was not “invented” as it does not really exist. It is a purely human mechanism for managing our lives.Outside the human framework all other organisms live “now” there is no yesterday or tomorrow in their consciousness. Of course they learn things and use that knowledge at a later date.
“Energy IS Time” concept
I want to introduce you all folks to a totally new concept of Time called “Energy IS Time“. This concept is based on how much energy you have at a given moment and depending on the energy you have, you will have more time available. Did you not had the moment that you said “Fuck… time flies”, that actually means that you had a lot of energy in that specific time frame. So it would be much more enjoyable that the time available automatically adjusts to the energy you have. Energy IS the unit to measure time !
Imagine you have a lot of energy, I then think you need more time then the current time system allows you. The current system says that you only have 60 seconds in a minute….independently of the energy you still have. But the current seconds value must be a variable depending on the energy you have. So actually in current time system your clock is going to turn around slower to represent more time, because you have more energy.
Make the concept online interactive
Of course if we want to introduce this concept to the big mass of people, we need some way to make to clear to each other how much energy you have so people know if you are for example able to talk to them or maybe you simply have no time (= no energy).
Because we are living not in the Sumerian time anymore, we can implement easily a world wide human portal site where people can look up the time system their friend has. Imagine a website where people are represented by their energy value. People with more energy are represented as more reddish dots and people with no or less energy are represented as dots with less or no red color.
It would be awesome to see a report on what country has the most energy, isn’t it?
Actually because energy is something scientifically measurable we can automatically track the energy level of a person. Simply built in a energy sensor inside a newly born human being and send the energy level automatically to the portal site. This would be the ideal solution for making arrangements with people because you can also see on the portal at what moment the specified person has the most energy.
Offline energy communication
What would it be if you need to check the energy level of a person outside of the internet ‘energy portal’ site. We need a way to represent the energy level of a person in a offline way. This can be easily done by intelligent clothing. Imagine that your T-Shirt color automatically synchronize with your energy level. In that way for example the color of your T-Shirt will be more saturated when you have more energy and less saturated when you have less energy. This is only one way to show your energy level in offline communication, I am sure there are a lot more ways to express your energy value.

* absolutely learn something in this*

PARADOX OF LIFE(a must read)

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.


Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

George Carlin

Friday, January 22, 2010

Apology letter

Personal Apology Letter
Writing a personal apology letter is one of the most difficult tasks. You have upset or offended a member of the family or a personal friend and want to make a sincere apology. Where do you start? Well, the good news is that you have already started - you have reached this page. And you can save a relationship by sending a letter where you can say you are sorry instead of letting it 'snowball' out of control.

Personal Apology Letter

Some things to and tips to consider when writing a personal apology letter:
Put yourself in the other person’s shoes – how would you feel?
Apologise as soon as possible - but better late than never...
Start the letter by apologising and state exactly what you are apologising for
Try to provide a reason for what occurred
Always acknowledge the feelings of the other person
Accept full responsibility for what has happened
Do not blame the other person when you offer your apology
Promise not to repeat your mistake
Ask that they give you another chance and the opportunity to prove yourself
Say that you will call them shortly to apologise in person

Wednesday, January 6, 2010


Dearest Mom,

In a lifetime I will never find another, who will love me as unconditionally as you have. I am truly blessed to not only have you as my mother but a soulmate. One who can see through my smile to know I am hurting. Who will do just about anything to see me happy, even if it means keeping silent whilst performing little deeds in the background. One whose fervent prayers have kept me safe from harm or sickness. I have so much to learn from you. I am always in awe when I witness your generosity, and your kindness to those in need.

Mom, I know I am not the best daughter and am truly sorry for all those times I’ve hurt you. I can only promise to do better. Know that I love you with all my heart even though I may not say it everyday.Eventhough we're far from each other.

Thank you so much for all your love and sacrifice, you are ‘Heaven Sent’ and you are my inspiration.

Happy Birthday Mom!

All my love,


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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Summit Gives Trouble

Saturday i plan to meet my sis & my bestfriend at Summit i don't want to drive to Curve Damansara so we end up here.Meeting time 1:00 my sis called me & she said that she can't make it we change it to 2:00.Its a good day not raining & im in the mood that time to go Jalan Jalan.Planning to do my hair also & i choose to do it at Summit nearer in my place,salon looks fine forgot what's the name Oh! its Super Style hope they can do my hair properly & become Super Hair hahah!!

I park my car nicely take note no parking at all normally i will park at sawasde but they closed it don't know what the're doing there i saw some workers doing M & E for the coming event i don't give a damn....huhhh!!!

and it so crazy that after i park my car infront of Summit Hotel & walk trough the entrance of Summit Mall what the hell i saw parking nearby there got few.I told the parking boy that why he bring me till' in that place so far & i need to walk ...grrrr but im joking
with them.he even tell me give ur car key i will park ur car nearby......haaa!!!
ofcorz i don't want...keep walking....waiting for my friend to come i drop by at Sawasde to say Hi
to all of my friends there...

Its freaking 4:00 pm & i never ate my lunch yet waiting for my sis she still in Damansara looking for NIKE shoe to give to my Father its really hard to find nice one here in M'sia she needs to go to few places there....

Mr.Tepanyaki for lunch yummy this is better than other Tepanyaki

Bought Office Baju's at one of the Shop there.Trying this cardigan Small size but still big for me.Wer selling before this in My online boutique"Batch 1 Collection" & it fits me perfectly
its all gone my customers favorite....
Want to go back home already around 7:00 put the sounds so loud ready to beat the crazy traffic Jam coz' my sis want to do her nails nearby my place its going to closed at 8:00 im rushing then
and guess what happen
WTF my tier
is flat how to go back????
The parking boy told me that my tier puncture i get pissed off i know they are the one who did it,
my tier is still new how come?i move my car i lil' bit want to check if got some sharp thing there but nothing no nails or whatever....grrrrrr!!!

they ask me if i have spare tier i said yes, they offer me they will do it but i totally disagree.Obviously they want to make money im not stupid i know all this tricks.I called my Hubby to send somebody to do it....he's not picking up the phone for 2hours.Im so worried about him first time it happens.
Ok fine thought he have late meeting as he told me earlier that he needs to do something.
Standby at Sawasde no choice waiting for my Sis bf to come my savior that time.

We had beef salad while waiting first time i tried this its nice & spicy ....

Tom the savior came make arrangement to change my tier,i had call my BIL earlier ask him to call my hubby if he can get him....
everything is under control somebody will help us suddenly my hubby called me & inform that somebody is coming to fixed my tier(insurance guy) .
HE'S not answering my call coz' he's sleeping & put the phone on silent mode OMG.
You know why ???he knows that im with my sis. so he thinks im so busy & enjoying that time .Didn't took so long around 30min. then i go back home...atlast.

Friday, November 20, 2009


or you can leave comment will came back to you ASAP for sure
I saw it before few months ago in angelface3 online boutique but i forgotten about it too busy,i save this pic incase i need it & also at the reviewer site just now RM140.00 but i forgot which one, this is a real catch for beach party will pair it with orange bikini wooot!!! I've got a hankering with fabric shoe now :-) i keep my shoe collections for quite long some of them spoilt & having this i can use it in long term haha!!! eventhough i can't wear it everytime as long its in my collections i feel very very happy !!!
and oh pls. this one below pics is really what i want a.s.a.p, saw it in Tongue in Chic she's from my country as well if im there for sure i got this right away........
Killer heels absolutely fits me can't wait to have this OMG so nice

anybody there who can help me im waiting

thanks in advance

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Wednesday, November 18, 2009


Preparation for Engagement

Heading at the same salon I’ve went before HAIRWORKS at Kajang Cheras(remeber my post before Hari Raya Time, I’m not familiar with any salon out here coz’ obviously I’m not staying in that area but this salon actually satisfied me everytime I do my hair.

I look so pale yeah!!

She's not the same girl who did my hair before & i don't really like it she's not so experience i can say that......end up with the same girl atlast so im quite happy:-)

featuring my new bag ELLE purchase at Klang Jusco last week i love it suede material that is easy to get scratch haha!Lot of compartments,inner lining is lovely & huge to keep all my rubbish

Finish product more Volume over here....

Going back to Jules Place

Some random pics i took i know you all get fed up with my face same here lol!!!

with Jules little Sister

This is Shiela's Engagement Jules sister
You thought its my Engement haha!!!

Canopy outside their house with lots of yummy foody

Jule & myself

We purchase our lovely Maxi Dress online running out of time so we don't have time to go to any malls & check it out.
It looks gorgeous right???
Ur smart designer here redo the dress there's no waistband we altered the dress its too long for both of us & extra fabric we tigh at the waist part so it will look better....
Japanese style this time RM99.00 exclusive of postage but we manage to get discount for the postage
FYI the online boutique where we purchase it will let you know too late now to find for the link
will let you know some other time i feel tired typing & back paining now

Jules Auntie

Shiela looks like Puteri that day i took this pics

She looks so Happy

continue my stories 2mrw feel hungry now will have some burger King yums!!!

Unexpected comment from Dawn

Dawn said...
Thanks for posting this great story! And thanks for correctly attributing it to David J. Pollay! My name is Dawn, and I work with David. I just wanted to stop by and let you know that you can read the original story on David’s blog, http://davidjpollay.typepad.com/david_j_pollay/lawofthegarbagetruck.html. I know he’d love to have you stop by!You can also find out more information about The Law of the Garbage Truck on www.thelawofthegarbagetruck.com. Make sure to check out the video of people in New York City taking the No Garbage Trucks!™ Pledge: www.bewareofgarbagetrucks.com. It’s pretty cool.Thanks again!Dawn Lynn

You can read the post below its really a great story reason that's why i post it...

Friday, October 23, 2009

Jules B-day

I love this pic Silhouette (i can be a good photographer someday)

I feel so sad that i forgot to post Ms.Jules B-day in my online boutique site & do some promotions.Im very busy now a days if i can make it 34 hours in one day i will do but we only have 24 hours & its not enough for me to do all my things.Anyway we didn't celebrate her b-day at exact day ...we wait for weekends to come(saturday night at Uncle Chilis )

Left side - Ms.Jules wearing one of our best seller -Starlet Diva

Middle- Ms.Shiela Jules sister - loose a lot of weight & look hot now

Right side- Ms.Rain wearing womanizer-one of our hot collections

Starlet Diva really suites Jules - royal blue look fantastic for her,

Bare back really emphasize her sexyness

& the best part is the oozing boobsy she got ...you've got it.... baby u've got it...

I usually drink only once a week - if i feel bored at home i will have few glasses of whisky before i will go to sleep ,way back i can drink a lot & i drink like a fish till' i become squid hahaha!

Now is different aging maybe lol!!!

Celebrating B-day means your family must be around so here is Jules Brothers & sister.

I become part of their family so im also in this scene ....

This is it Flaming Lamborgini Go Jules she actually make it "Bravo"....i never tried this for a year already.

What we will expect for a B-day girl? Ofcorz' happiness,laughters,giggles,kisses,hugs & etc.

Can't deny that she is so MF happy with only 2 candles .What is that? cheater...

i like my new hair color but sems it looks so dry now hahaa!!!

Wth Maya a girl who has a powerful voice she's damn good

Superb dinner really feeling
Baked cod fishm-Ms.Jules Weakness
A non-stop buffet - My weakness
Specialty Menu is our weakness